Ramblings of a Wounded Female Soldier for Christ

"And the woman which has an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, else were your children unclean but now are they holy.(1 Corinthians 7:13-14)"

Do you know how you can sanctify your unbelieving husband? Pray, Pray, Pray. Even if your husband claims to be a believer but by his actions he seems to prove otherwise. Pray, Pray, & Pray. Do you submit to an unbelieving husband? Do not worry. Just pray. Do you feel your privileges of molding your children to be pure and godly get snatched from you by your unbelieving husband? Be brave like Sarah who obeyed Abraham while he was foolish. Please do not let bitterness seep in. Do not let relatives meddle in your marriage. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Do not even complain to your parents about your spouse ever. Never ever do that. Never ever complain to anybody about your spouse accept to God.

Fall on your face before him in humility and ask for His help with your bitter tears. He will hear you. He will help you. I know sometimes you just want to say "Good, don't let the door hit you on the way out." Believe me. I know you want to say this. I know you want to take the door and slam it 3 times really, really loud. But, please just pray. I say this because I have witnessed many miracles in my own marriage. Don't ever act like you don't want him around because this hurts them really bad. The virtuous woman does him good and not harm all the days of his life. If he threatens to leave say please don't go. Tell him you love him and you don't want him to go. If you have sinned against him acknowledge it right away. Never ever protect your pride. God resists the proud and gives favor to the humble. God will give you the victory if your heart's desire is for your man to be saved. What does the scripture say? Pray for them that persecute you and despitefully use you. If you disobeyed this acknowledge and confess your sins before God.

Watch and wait his miracles will soon fall upon you. This is for real. Don't be too bitter to pray for God's help. He will come quickly to provide for your rescue and refresh you. I have seen my husband's additude change from a bully to a prince charming through prayer. It may only last long enough to refresh you before you have to battle over evil with good all over again but remember that as you fight the battle of faith you will experience pain but it makes you a strong woman. A female soldier for God.

If you are a believer you know that God hates divorce. Ask the Lord to change your heart to follow after His.


May the only wise God grant you His wisdom for every part of your life.